[Bug] First week was bad, fixed it and was running fine on even streets and now the past 3 days I can't load into maps again

I know this has been asked to death but what is going on, I was running it fine for weeks then out of the blue my PC is just using all of its memory and my hard drive (even though Tarkov is downloaded on a SSD) is maxed out as well. im trying everything I can but it makes no sense why its just shitting the bed again when it was working fine days ago

yes I know I should have more ram but like I said I was even able to boot streets which I have not been able to do for months and now even factory is stuttering and I am getting packet loss up the ass